Help! God is blessing us too much!

 

Have you ever been the “victim” of too much blessing? 

There are a few cases in Scripture where people were blessed to the breaking point.
In Exodus 3:1-7 Moses orders Israel to stop giving because they are overwhelmed in the gifts for the tabernacle.
In Psalm 103:11 the psalmist is overwhelmed with God’s steadfast love for him.
In Ephesians 1:15-16 Paul is overwhelmed with gratitude to God for the testimony of the church in Ephesus.

Around the time Eva was born I started feeling sorry for myself.  After all, I work with very competent co-workers, who are extremely gifted and somehow seem to manage juggling many things at a time…radio stations, prison ministries, finance committees, consistent preaching schedules, youth ministries, children etc…

So I whined about it in prayer to God.  After all, I want to be used of God too!

Melodee tells me that I got what I asked for!

The following is a very brief and inexhaustive summary of God’s answer to that prayer.

1. Family

Noah reading the Bible to Eva

Noah reading the Bible to Eva

We thank God for blessing us with two wonderful children.  We just received Eva’s American passport, so we can celebrate that she is a citizen somewhere! Now we can start applying for her residence.
Noah is starting to understand Italian more and more.  I love taking him with me on errands.  My mom has even taken him on visits!  Yesterday we gave away Bible calendars.  People seem to almost always respond positively to a gift, but receiving a gift from a towhead toddler especially puts a smile on people’s faces!  Noah is even taking seriously his job as a big brother.

2. Teaching and preaching

Even while adjusting to being parents for the second time, God (and Melodee) have allowed me to do a significant amount of teaching and preaching.
– Together with my Dad and with Dann we have preached through the pastoral epistles and Philemon.  Our prayer is that God would bring out the men who God wants to be the next generation of pastors and deacons.
– I have also had the joy of teaching the Discovery Course, a seminar created by our sending church Calvary Baptist Church in Grand Rapids, Michigan.  In this course people discover how to embrace all that God would have them be in the Body through their spiritual gifts and talents.
– You may remember hearing about L’Aquila,  a city hit by an earthquake in 2009 that killed almost 300 people. I was asked by our dear friends from that church to go there this past November to teach a youth seminar.  The seminar was on the theme of Spiritual Leadership. As you know, training leaders has always been my heart passion.  How could I say no?  Melodee and my co-pastors encouraged me to do it too.  It was an incredible weekend.  Imagine a table full of twenty-somethings sitting and taking notes for two days straight with little or no breaks!  It took my ailing tongue a week to recuperate!

3. Outreach

God has been reaching people during this time.
– The Christmas season outreach is in full swing.  I am the choir director and Melodee is the accompanist.  This means many hours of preparation (arranging, translating), as well as rehearsals.  For the entire Christmas season the choir is replacing our worship team on Sundays.  We are also preparing a special outreach event on December 15th, together with the children’s ministries.

You should hear Noah quote from Isaiah 9:6-7 in Italian!

https://vimeo.com/81119989 w=500&h=280

I am always torn about whether to continue this time-consuming choral ministry, but since or goal is to equip the body to fully function without missionaries, we have found it to be a useful tool in equipping them musically, in worship and uniting them together toward a common goal!
– I was also invited to play in a community band in the town of Spello (Some of you may have chosen that township to pray for.).  Pray that the seed I have sown will bring fruit.  A couple of concerts were on Eva’s due date, which I turned down, but thankfully just a couple weeks ago I was invited back!  I was able to invite two people to church.
– Lastly, and by far one of the most exciting things that is happening is in a small suburb of Chiugiana, near Perugia, where our sister in Christ, Donatella lives.  This town is in the township of Corciano, if you happened to be praying for it.
Through her ministry of compassion, several ladies in her neighborhood started coming to her house to study the Bible, despite the threats of the parish priest.  One woman, Serenella, has embraced Christ as her Savior and Lord, and her family is well on their way.  They used to be considered the most catholic family in the entire town.  John 8:32  says: “and you will know the truth, and the truth shall set you free!”

Eva's Smile

Eva’s Smile

God is always at work.  We’re just grateful to have a small part in it.  Thank you for being part of it through your praying though your giving and through your friendship!  Eva’s smile says it all!

We leave you with a few prayer requests:

1. That more souls would come to Christ in his perfect timing.  Especially for Perugia, Chiugiana and San Fortunato (where we live).
2. That God would lead us in equipping leaders, especially men for leadership in the church.
3. For many of our supporters who are struggling financially through this time of world financial crisis.
4. For spiritual and physical health.
5. For good time management.

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Prayer Request for Youth Conference in L’Aquila

@whitmansprayer: Please pray as I prepare to teach a youth conference this weekend in L’Aquila on the theme: Spiritual Leadership. Thanks!

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Announcing: A new family member!

 

Thursday evening, August 22nd at 8:47pm, Eva Rose Whitman came into the world!

All of us at the hospitalWe thank the Lord for this beautiful blessing that God has given us.  She weighed 3 kilograms and was 51 centimeters long at birth. (The use of metric is intentional, just to give you a hard time!)

We have been blessed to have my (Jon) parents helping out with Noah, and today Melodee’s parents arrived from Florida!

Thank you for sharing in this special moment in our life through your prayers and for the many of you who have been inquiring: “Is she here yet?”

The delivery went extremely well, and Melodee feels great!  On top of that we had the privilege of sharing Christ twice while we were in the hospital — with Melodee’s roomate  and an Indian young man whose younger sister  attends our church. We felt God’s hand in so many ways.    God is at work!

Jon and the kidsNow we are all back home, enjoying the love of our brothers and sisters in Christ who have been providing meals and cleaning our house for us.

Noah seems to be adjusting well to having a baby sister, though he is not sure what to do with her crying.  She has a voracious appetite and once in a while even lets us sleep.

Thank you for your prayers. We truly feel like the richest people on earth.

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What is your Legacy?

 

Recently, I had the privilege of attending the funeral of Maria Teresa de Giustina Standridge, one of the most godly women I have ever met. People from all over Italy gathered in a suburb of Rome, in a small meeting hall (small for American standards and without air conditioning) in the early afternoon to pay our respects. There was standing room only, and the service lasted over an hour and a half. I was sweating in places of my body I didn’t know existed!

Bill and Maria Teresa Standridge

Bill and Maria Teresa Standridge

Why would people go to such measures to be there in such conditions?  Simply put, because Maria Teresa left us a legacy. If there had been more time (and more chairs and air conditioning), almost everyone there would have had memories to share about her impact in their lives.

My debt toward her had many dimensions. Being a senior missionary with her husband Bill, my parents admired their ministry and family life enough to want to emulate them.  When our family was young, we would drive two hours south to Rome to celebrate Thanksgiving with them.  I don’t remember the food, but I remember the love.  Ironically, Maria Teresa was Italian, but she adapted well to her husband’s traditions learning, among other things, to make and train others in the great art of apple pie!

Every time I saw her, she would run up to me with a big smile to give me a hug (American) and a kiss (Italian) and remind me that she was my Italian grandmother.  I always felt honored to be considered such, especially from a woman who was sought all over Italy for women’s conferences, for her counsel, books, articles and translations (including the excellent MacArthur Study Bible, one of its kind) along with her husband.  Of course, I get the feeling that she said that to many other children…she was just that kind of woman!

She was also an incredible mother.  All of her children serve God in one capacity or another. Her son Steve Standridge was the man that God used to push me to surrender to serve God in full-time service.

Maria Teresa’s legacy was not only in her living, but in her dying.  In February she found out that she had a terminal case of leukemia.  Most people would have taken a vacation, to enjoy a bit of life before ending it, but not Maria Teresa!  Between blood transfusions she managed to finish several books and a tract about dying.   She even spoke at an afternoon conference for women that Melodee had the opportunity to attend just weeks ago.

Reflecting on Maria Teresa’s life, death and legacy has helped me to realize, even more with my own health issues, the importance of leaving a right legacy.  Someone asked Maria Teresa about her keeping of spiritual diaries.  She told them that after writing in them she would throw them away.  Yesterday I decided to throw away 20 years worth of  journals in the recycle bin.  It was hard…but I asked myself…is that what I want to be remembered for?  I was ashamed for some of the foolish things I had written.

I thank God for sanctification!!  Hopefully I can remember the lessons learned, but I hope to move ahead for God’s glory.  Time will tell if I made the right decision to destroy volumes of reminders of my immaturity; but if Maria Teresa could do it and still leave such a rich legacy, I feel good about looking ahead and leaving a better legacy.

What kind of legacy do I want to leave?  Do I want to be remembered as a great missionary?  Do I want to be remembered as a translator of songs or books (unlikely)?  I fear that I am too easily ensnared in the trap of the “pride of life”.  1 John 2:16-17 says:

Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world. 17 And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.

What really matters?  How do I want my wife and children and church people and supporters and lost friends to remember me?

Here is my conclusion:  I want to be remembered as an “Authentic Follower of Jesus Christ.”  Simple, no?  What more could I possibly want?

What about your legacy?  What are your thoughts?

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Problems with Citizenship Prayer Request [Twitter]

It looks improbable that they will give me Italian citizenship because we were €50 short in “Italian” income taxes.

Now we could have to wait for up to two years to be turned down before we can reapply. In the meantime we continue to pay more and more Italian taxes. Please pray that my application be accepted!

Thank you.

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